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Are you a full-stack human?

Extroverting by Brandon Possin
7 min readDec 26, 2023
Photo credit: Jez Timms

If we want to be desired, we must be worthy of that desire. Yet most romantic prospects could think we are are missing something. This is why a prospect stops dating us and moves on, right?

Someone might see us having the emotional warmth, or the looks, yet maybe our conversations are shallow. Or we have had career success yet seem to lack any real curiosity of the world.

Eight questions — below — can help us know if we are missing a glaring area.

The rare few…just have it all. They’re utterly complete. They spark interest. While attraction is obviously subjective, enough singles in our world are looking for the same things in a partner. One could call it the modern desirability consensus. Yet it has been hard to give this condition a name. Until now.

Full-stack human.

It’s taking a computing human resource term — “full stack developer” and using it to describe a fully capable person. In computing terms, a full-stack dev is someone who can build both the front end and the back end of a website as well as manage a database, version control, and web/mobile hosting programs. The full-stack dev also knows several computing languages.

This is someone who has read enough to know what it takes to fulfill his/her potential on earth. It’s someone who has no missing areas that…

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Extroverting by Brandon Possin
Extroverting by Brandon Possin

Written by Extroverting by Brandon Possin

Blog on making the most of opportunities, especially in emerging tech and being extroverted. By the founder of a science fintech startup in Japan, Merito.

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